~SallY's World~

Back to Blogging Again

2009-09-05T06:59:00.002-03:00

Finally,im back to blogging after almost half year! I was really busy with my research project & thesis writing after back from Industrial Training for 3 months (ends in Apr). The 3 months was used for training & all of us need to rush for our research projects b4 writing thesis. Then,here comes the final exams, the last last exams that we're going to sit to complete our whole degree programme.

Unfortunately, we're so pack between the finals & the thesis writing. The draft of the thesis was written & submitted to our supervisor and another 2 lecturers b4 hard bind it. Corrections were done based on all the 3 lecturers' marking & i was kind of confused as different lecturers have different comments on our thesis, quite headache also...Frankly speaking, i dont have much time to study & the whole study week was just spent for thesis writing. Furthermore, i had been applying jobs since July so that i can start work immediately after i finish my final exams. So, job interviews came in & i need to travel from here & there to attend the interviews & doing my thesis at the same time. I sometimes was frustrated also cos the time really is not enough to use! Maybe due to my time management is not that good,that's im facing this problem.

However, everything was done now. I got a help from 1 of my classmates, she's actually my housemate also to print all the contents of my thesis & hard bind it in KL, then submit to the lecturers. Since the color printing in KL is much more cheaper than here and I also need to do 4 copies of my thesis which has lots of color pages.

I'm so relieve now cos final exams had over, thesis were done & i manage to got a job right b4 i finish my exams. Well, i would say that it's a good thing, but then every1, especially my friends seem not to agree with that. According to them, i should have enjoy the max b4 i enter the working life,or else i would have regret in future!

I think it's ok for me already as i had entered the working life for a week since 1st of Sept, which i only spend 3 days of holidays b4 going to work....

I would like to take this opportunity to thanks to all my beloved friends, classmates & those who had been assisting & guiding me along this period of my degree programme. Without them, i'm sure i would have not grad. Btw, just a reminder that my convo will falls on 10th Oct 2009. Hope u people can attend my convo ya~

All the BEST to all of my friends in their future undertakings!

Nine words women use

2009-04-18T09:19:00.001-03:00

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

1st month of internship

2009-03-08T09:37:00.007-03:00

Times flow very fast. I did my industrial training in Plexus for a month already! There are 3 categories of QA department, Product Quality, Supplier Quality Engineering(SQE) and Incoming Quality Assurance(IQA). I was placed under the department of QA-product quality. My internship supervisor is a married lady while my co-supervisor is a cute lady who's going to married in this coming Sat. I had a co-supervisor because my supervisor was too busy to handle me...haha! When i join their department, I was told that she had 4 projects under her, that's y she was so busy cos she was the Head Section of Product Quality. So,until now I never work for/with her before. I'm currently work for/with my co-supervisor. It's quite nice to do my training there as I learn lots of things such as verifying the body marking checking of printed circuit board assembly(PCBA), how to take the pictures of those PCBA and also using computer software to do documentations. I still remember that I joined Plexus on 2nd of Feb, that time it was still the 8th day of CNY and my supervisor treated me n other colleagues for lunch to welcome me. I was quite happy and surprised cos I never heard that during our industrial training, the supervisor will treat their trainees for a meal. If the supervisor didnt bully u or ignore u, it was considered that lucky already. When I told this to my friends n ex-seniors, they were happy for me too cos this shows that my supervisor is a good person. Ya, i need to admit that she's a good supervisor though i din work with her before, but I can really see from her performance and the experiences that she shared with me cos I always have lunch with her...haha! She's also a serious person who really focus on her works and this is different with other supervisor of my friends. As I meantioned before in my previous blog, 2 of my classmates also join in Plexus with me but they are in SQE department. Both of their supervisors are men who jokes a lot which is totally different from my supervisor.haha! The operators there are quite helpful and skillful as well. Whenever i dunno how to do this or do that, I'll ask and they will teach me without complaining. That's the part where I like the operators. However, the work loads are quite heavy as well cos i'm from QA department which means we are the 1 that dealed with ustomers. Once we received the customer complaint, we need to ensure that the products that shipped out should be zero errors. That's y it involves many documentations as well.... 2 months for me to go before I went back to university. The duration of my internship is very short, i wish that it could be extented somemore. However, my wish wont bcome true as it was stated that it's only 3 months in my university handbook....I still prefer to do training more to going back to university to continue my studies!!! These are some of the pics that I took for 1 of the models of PCBA: It was taken with both camera and microscope which is quite challenging as we need to do the correct adjustment.

12 Ways To Know That You Love Someone

2009-03-01T05:24:00.000-04:00

TWELVE:
You talk with him/her late at night and when you go to bed you still think of him/her.

ELEVEN:
You walk really slowly when you are with him/her.

TEN:
You don't feel Ok when he/she is far away.

NINE:
You smile when you hear his/her voice.

EIGHT:
When you look at him/her,you do not see other people around you.You see only him/her.

SIX:
He/She is everything you want to think.

FIVE:
You realise that you smile every time you look at him/her.

FOUR:
You would do anything to see him/her.

THREE:
While you have been reading this, there was a person in your mind all the time.

TWO:
You've been so busy thinking of that person that you didn't notice that number SEVEN is missing.

ONE:
You are going to check above if that's true and now you are silently laughing to yourself.

Story that Makes Me Cry

2009-02-08T10:38:00.000-04:00

This is a Simple Story of True Love and True Care:

I was born in a secluded village on a mountain. Day by day, my parents plowed the yellow dry soil with their backs towards the sky.

I have a brother who is 3 years younger than me.

I wanted to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have. So, one day I stole 50 cents from my father's drawer.

Father had discovered about the stolen money right away.

He made me and my younger brother kneel against the wall as he held a bamboo stick in his hand. "Who stole the money?" he asked. I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Neither of us admitted to the fault, so he said, "Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you two should be beaten!"

He lifted up the bamboo stick. Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father's hand and said," Dad, I was the one who did it!" The long stick smacked my brother's back repeatedly. Father was so angry that he kept on whipping my brother until he lost his breath. After that, he sat down on our stone bed and scolded my brother, "You have learned to steal from your own house now.

What other embarrassing things will you be possibly doing in the future? You should be beaten to death, you shameless thief!"

That night, my mother and I hugged my brother. His body was full of wounds from the beating but he never shed a single tear. In the middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother covered my mouth with his little hand and said, " Sis, now don't cry anymore. Everything has happened."

I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I did.

Years gone by, but the incident still seemed like it just happened yesterday. I will never forget my brother's expression when he protected me.

That year, my brother was 8 years old and I was 11 years old. When my brother was in his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an upper secondary school in the central. At the same time, I was accepted into a university in the province. That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking, packet by packet.

I could hear him ask my mother, "Both of our children, they have good results? very good results?" Mother wiped off her tears and sighed," What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?" At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in front of father and said,"Dad, I don't want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough books."

Father swung his hand and slapped my brother on his face. "Why do you have a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I will send you two to school until you have both finished your study!"

And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow >money. I stuck out my hand as gently as I can to my brother's swollen face, and told him, "A boy has to continue his study; If not, he will not be able to overcome this poverty we are experiencing."

I, on the other hand, had decided not to further my study at the university. Nobody knew that on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothes and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of the bed and left a note on my pillow; "Sis, getting into a university is not easy. I will go find a job and I will send money to you."

I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice.

That year, my brother was 17 years old; I was 20 years old. With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and the money my brother earned from carrying cement on his back at a construction site,finally, I managed to get to the third year of my study in the university..

One day, while I was studying in my room, my roommate came in and told me,"There's a villager waiting for you outside!" Why would there be a villager looking for me? I walked out, and I saw my brother from afar. His whole body was covered with dirt, dust, cement and sand. I asked him, "Why did you not tell my roommate that you are my
brother?"

He replied with a smile," Look at my appearance. What will they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won't they laugh at you?" I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away dirt and dust from my brother's body. And told him with a lump in my throat, " I don't care what people would say! You are my brother no matter what your appearance is?"

From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. He put it on my hair and said, "I saw all the girls in town are wearing it. So, I think you should also have one." I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms and cried.

That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old. I noticed that the broken window was repaired the first time I brought my boyfriend home.

The house was scrubbed cleaned. After my boyfriend left, I danced like a little girl in front of my mother, "Mom, you didn't have to spend so much time cleaning the house!" But she told me with a smile,"

It was your brother who went home early to clean the house. Didn't you see the wound on his hand? He hurt his hand while he was replacing the window."

I went into my brother's bedroom. Looking at his thin face, I felt like there are hundreds of needle pricked in my heart.

I applied some ointment on his wound and put a bandage on it, "Does it hurt? " I asked him. "No, it doesn't hurt. You know, when at the construction site, stones keep falling on my feet . Even that could not >stop me from working." In the middle of the sentence, he stopped. I turned my back on him and tears rolled down my face.

That year, my brother was 23 years old; I was 26 years old. After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited my parents to come and live with us, but they didn't want. They said, once they left the village,they wouldn't know what to do. My brother agreed with them. He said, "Sis, you just take care of your parents-in-law. I will take care of mom and dad here."

My husband became the director of his factory. We asked my brother to accept the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman instead for a start.

One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and was sent to the hospital. My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the white gypsum on his leg, I grumbled,

"Why did you reject the offer of being a manager? Managers won't do something dangerous like that. Now look at you, You ar suffering a serious injury. Why didn't you just listen to us?"

With a serious expression on his face, he defended his decision, "Think of brother-in-law. He just became the director, and I being uneducated, and would become a manager, what kind of rumors would fly around?" My husband's eyes filled up with tears, and then I said, "But you lack in education only because of me!" "Why do you talk about the past?" he said and then he held my hand.

That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old. My brother was 30 years old when he married a farm girl from the village. During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked him, "Who is the one person you respect and love the most?"

Without even taking a time to think, he answered," My sister." He continued by telling a story I could not even remember.

"When I was in primary school, the school was in a different village.
Everyday, my sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home.

One day, I lost the other pair of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers.

She wore only one glove and she had to walk far. When we got home, her hands were trembling because of the cold weather that she could not even hold her chopsticks.

From that day on, I swore that as long as I live, I would take care of my sister and will always be good to her." Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their attention to me. I found it hard to speak, "In my whole life, the one I would like to thank most is my brother," And in this happy occasion,in front of the crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.

*Love and care for the one you love every single days of your life.* You may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may mean a lot.

Have a nice day everyone! May this story inspire you in other ways !

A meaningful message

2009-02-08T01:12:00.009-04:00

No Pain No Gain… Accept the Pain, Future will be Fruitful…

Don't feel the work you are doing is pain, because there will be always a reason for that pain or work.

So face the pain, for the pain you face, there will be definitely happiness a head.

BEST JOKE award winner in UK

2009-02-08T01:09:00.001-04:00

One Chinese person walks into a bar in America late one night and he saw Steven Spielberg.

As he was a great fan of his movies, he rushes over to him, and asks for his autograph.

Instead, Spielberg gives him a slap and says "You Chinese people bombed our Pearl Harbor, get out of here."

The astonished Chinese man replied "It was not the Chinese who bombed your Pearl Harbor , it was the Japanese".

"Chinese, Japanese, Taiwanese, you're all the same," replied Spielberg.

In return, the Chinese gives Spielberg a slap and says "You sank the Titanic, my forefathers were on that ship."

Shocked, Spielberg replies "It was the iceberg that sank the ship, not me."

The Chinese replies, "Iceberg, Spielberg, Carlsberg, you're all the same."

This particular joke won an award for the best joke in a competition in Britain.

Appropriate Definitions

2009-02-08T01:04:00.001-04:00

Atom Bomb: An invention to end all inventions.

Boss: Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early.

Classic: Books, which people praise, but do not read.

Committee: Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.

Compromise: The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody believes he got the biggest piece.

Conference: The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.

Conference Room: A place where everybody talks, nobody listens and everybody disagrees later on.

Dictionary: A place where success comes before work.

Doctor: A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you by bills.

Etc.: A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do.

Experience: The name men give to their mistakes.

Father: A banker provided by nature.

Lecture: An art of transferring information from the notes of the Lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through 'the minds of either'.

Life Insurance: A contract that keeps you poor all your life so that you can die Rich.

Marriage: It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her masters.

Nurse: A person who wakes u up to give you sleeping pills.

Office: A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.

Philosopher: A fool who torments himself during life, to be wise after death.

Politician: One who shakes your hand before elections and your Confidence after.

School: A place where Papa pays and Son plays.

Smile: A curve that can set a lot of things straight.

Tears: The hydraulic force by which masculine willpower is defeated by feminine waterpower.

Yawn: The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.

Are you a Blogoholic?

2009-02-08T01:02:00.002-04:00

Blogging is the new culture in youth lifestyle nowadays that they should probably add the word Blog into the Oxford Dictionary.

Now, slowly step away from the computer and just take your time to read this and if you fit these symptoms, there’s a chance you may be a blogoholic! Not that it’s a bad thing of course…

How do you know you’re a Blogoholic?

- The first thing you do when you get home is to open your blog and put in a new entry.

- You cannot live without internet (3 hours on a train and you’re already complaining).

- You tend to ask people “Have you read my latest blog?” instead of “What’s up with you lately?”

- You’re starting to earn more by blogging then your day job.

- Many things you do are governed by your blog (like trying the new spicy Indian cuisine just so you could post it on your blog).

- You think you’re popular cos your number of guests at your blog just reached 5 digits.

- You get invited for events for media coverage…and the invite’s addressed to “Dear Blogger”.

- You actually get recognized when you go out, but not because of your daredevil stunts back in high school.

- Your dog has its own Dogster and your idea of bonding with it is by updating it constantly.

- You carry a 555 notebook with the title “Blog Topics” everywhere you go.

- Your girlfriend is breaking up with you because you’re more obsessed with Kenny Sia then what she has to say.

Why it’s so addictive?

- You can look like Jabba the Hutt and yet still people find no fault in you except for your writing.

- Your life always seemed so much more HAPPENNING in blogs then in real life.

- This is the only way you can get people to listen to you!

- Apparently, many make money when people read your blogs!

- It’s way easier than mailing or phoning…and it’s actually interacting with the masses.

- It’s your online diary, just in case your forget things that happened to you.

- You get psyched when people leave comments on your blog, shows that people are reading your life!

- You can express your most inner thoughts without listening to criticism from people and you can go anonymous.

This means you can trash the new girl in school online without her knowing that you’re the culprit! Brilliant!

Chinese New Year Check List

2009-01-19T01:16:00.000-04:00

It’s time of the year where you see RED everywhere and the word Ang Pau brings dollar signs to your eyes! And of course, it’s always time for FOOD FOOD FOOD! Kammpung Chicken, Nian Gao, Mee Sua, every food you can think of! Plus d juicy Mandarin Oranges! The excitement is overpowering……

It’s the exciting month where we can visit our relatives and friends and shamelessly siphon cash from the elderly (in the form of red packets). Here is the ultimate CHECKLIST of stuff that you gotta have before you embark on “balik kampung”. Make sure you have everything for CNY on this checklist!

Phone Check
1. Top-up your prepaid card! What’s a celebration without wishing all your friends Happy Chinese New Year? Plus, you’re bound to get bored when the old folks are chit-chatting, so top-up to sms your friends during these times…

2. Remember to bring your phone chargers as well as your camera/ MP3/ laptop chargers.

Vehicle Check
1. Check the brakes on your vehicle as well as other stuff and make sure the experts take a look at it before you embark on your loooong journey home.

2. Check the route that you’re taking to avoid any other ‘technical problems” like getting lost or ending up on the wrong highway…save time and fuel. Also, find the best route to suit your journey to make your journey shorter and quicker.

3. Check for the fuel level, as the road can go for miles and petrol stations are scarce.

4. Check the toll rates and prepare enough cash/top-up your “Touch n Go” to cover the toll.

Body Check
1. Make sure you’ve had enough rest to undergo the long and taxing journey. Stock up on caffeine during your long trip home and plan ahead to make sure your body gets enough rest before heading back home again…

2. We know it’s the season to be merry but drinking overload causes you’re happy isn’t a good excuse! Going overboard on alcohol is never a good thing, no matter how merry you are. Remember, moderation is the key!

Social Check
1. People are bound to visit you or vice versa, so it’s best to look spanking new in your new garbs. Make sure you bring along your new clothing and make sure they’re comfy! You don’t wanna spend the entire evening adjusting your top during a family dinner, do you? Also, it’ll be wiser to just choose clothes that will accommodate that swelling tummy after a nice, fulfilling meal…

2. We’re begging you here to please clean up your house. Show your guests a dusty, unkempt habitat you call home and you can never show your face in polite society ever again!

3. Stock up with food, especially with mandarin oranges, cookies and drinks to entertain your guests with! Be a god host and treat your guests to yummy CNY delicacies and they’re bound to be back!

2009-01-19T01:08:00.003-04:00

We heart CNY because...

- We get $$!!

- We get food glorious FOOD!

- We get to meet our family members and friends!

- We get new clothes!

- We have excuses to be gluttons.

- Holidays!!!

We hate CNY because...

-We have to travel hours and hours to get to some ulu place.

-We have to clean up the house! Before the guests arrive! Aarrgghhh!

-We have sit and listen to old relatives reminiscing about stuff that happened even before you were born.

-We have to sit and listen to our grandmother asking you when you're going to go on a diet.

-We have to sit and listen to our relatives bugging us to get married.

-We have to sit in the kids' table cause we're not married and the rest are......

How true is this?

2009-01-19T00:56:00.001-04:00

Before marriage
Darling here.. darling there...
After marriage
Baling here... baling there..

Before marriage
I die for you. . .
After marriage
"You die, up to you. "
Lagi lama married. .
You die I help you!

Before marriage
You go anywhere. . I follow you.
After marriage
You go anywhere. . up to you.
Lagi lama married. . .
You go anywhere better get lost!!

Before wedding
you are my heart, you are my love"
After wedding
"you get on my nerves. "

Before wedding
"you are sweet and kind just like Cinderella"
After wedding
"you are worse than godzila"

Before wedding
Roses are red, violets are blue. Like it or not, I'm stuck with you
After wedding
Roses are dead, I am blue. You get on my head, I will sue you

Before wedding
Every makan he brings you to Shangri-La
After wedding
You want to go, he says you wait-la

Before wedding
She looks like Anita Sarawak
After wedding
Don't know whether katak or biawak

Before wedding
Weekends at Cameron, Genting and Fraser's Hill
After wedding
Furthest you go is Maxwell Hill

Before wedding
He opens the car door
After wedding
He opens his mouth and snores

Before wedding
She / he was your ideal
After wedding
She / he becomes your ordeal

hehe...future hubbies...be careful...and future wives...be
aware.......................!!

Touching Story

2009-01-19T00:47:00.000-04:00

I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.

The boy couldn ' t have been more than 5 or 6 years old.

The Cashier said, ' I ' m sorry, but you don ' t have enough money to buy this doll. '

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ' ' Granny, are you sure I don ' t have enough money? ' '

The old lady replied: ' ' You know that you don ' t have enough money to buy this doll, my dear. ' '

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly.

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to.

'It ' s the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas.

She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her. '

But he replied to me sadly. ' No, Santa Claus can ' t bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there. '

His eyes were so sad while saying this. ' My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister. ' '

My heart nearly stopped.

The little boy looked up at me and said: ' I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall. '

Then he showed me a very nice photo of himself. He was laughing. He then told me ' I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won ' t forget me. '

'I love my mommy and I wish she didn' t have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister. '

Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. ' Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll! ' '

'OK ' he said, ' I hope I do have enough. ' I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: ' Thank you God for giving me enough money! '

Then he looked at me and added, ' I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give it to my sister. He heard me! ' '

'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn ' t dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. ' '

'My mommy loves white roses. '

A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket.

Please read it,it's really touching!

I finished my shopping in a totally different state of mind from when I started.

I couldn ' t get the little boy out of my mind.

Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl.

The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma.

Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.

I couldn ' t stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was for people to see and make last wishes before her burial.

She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.

I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine.

And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

What is your color?

2009-01-13T09:03:00.000-04:00

1. Your perfect Sunday is most likely spent:

A. Taking a leisure walk through the park, enjoying the fresh natural air and the view of beautiful flowers & butterflies.

B. Going on a hiking expedition while taking wildlife photographs.

C. Head out the most happening clubs and be let through to the VIP area.

2. If you could have any job, your ideal job would be:

A. Fashion designer, specializing in printed frocks and lovely dresses.

B. Rock Climber, exploring nature as well as scaling dangerous cliffs and mountains.

C. Business Executive, tackling deals and conquering the stock market.

3. What kind of music do you listen to?

A. Bubblegum Pop

B. Classic Rock

C. Sooth Jazz

4. You'd prefer to dress in:

A. Pretty little dresses. You're always looking gorgeous and made up whenever you go.

B. Jeans and T-shirt. It's important to be comfortable at all times so that your movements are not restricted or confined.

C. The best designer wear money could buy. You're always seen in the latest fashion trends and the coolest brands.

5. Your ideal vacation would be:

A. Hawaii, where you can join luaus and do a little bit of surfing, sip pina coladas and wear flowers in your hair.

B. Bungee Jumping, where you can'll love the thrill of blood pumping ito your head as you free fall down a valley.

C. Las Vegas, staying at the best hotels and enjoying every minute of their exceptional room service and having a go at the casino.

6. Who would you prefer to go on a vacation with?

A. Your girlfriends! They're the best company for you and you know you'll have fun giggling and chatting all night long.

B. Your back-packing buddy where he or she is always up for the challenge, no matter how dangerous it gets.

C. Your partner. It's always great to be spending your holidays cozying up to the one you have.

7. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be?

A. Strawberry Sorbet. You're awfully sweet and yet very deliciously yummy.

B. Rocky Road. Chocolate's the best kind of ice-cream and what's ice-cream without a little bit of chunky surprise in it?

C. Smooth Vanilla. You may look simple,but exploding with delicious vanilla essence that makes your exploding with delicious vanilla essence that makes your tongue tingle.

Answers:

Mostly A's-Pretty In Pink

The name says it all!! You're excruciatingly sweet and yet everyone loves you. You have that little hint of innocence in you, you can be assured that you're always well-loved. You're passionate about what you love and you're not afraid to be who you are. You love everything that's beautiful and wonderful in the world and you truly value your friends and loved ones. You're patient, kind and understanding and you always carry yourself well.

Mostly B's-Perfectly Pistachio

You're full of life, aren't you?
Always living life on the edge gets you moving and you're definitely born to be an adventurer. You face challenges with a brave heart and you're always up for a new one everytime. You are someone that has many stories to tell of your great expeditions and adventures and you're not afraid of changes. You adapt well to your surroundings and make the most of it and you may actually be borderline eccentric at times. Your friends can always count on you for great fun and excitement and you never ever fail to disappoint.

Mostly C's-Shine in white

To many, you're like the knight in shining white armor. You have a cool and calm exterior and you make everything seemed too easy. You're the epitome of style and everyone would love to be your friend. You can get into the coolest joints and clubs with just a snap of your fingers and you're always chillin' out and having a good time. Never one in a rush or frazzle, you smoothly glide through life, though it doesn't mean you don't put in effort. You're confident and sure of yourself and you find many who look up as their role model.

My Birthday Gifts

2008-12-09T12:35:00.005-04:00

7th December is my cousin sis,Janice n my birthday...she's 15yrs younger than me..previously,we used to celebrate birthday 2gether..but,nw im too bz wif my schedule tat we din celebrate 2gether ady...

I received lots of sms birthday wishes starting at 12am till d night b4 end of 12am of 7th Dec...of course i received gifts fr family members,relatives n friends as well...but,d no. of sms is more than the amount of gifts la..it's ok cos my friends mostly r not here as well...some working n some still studying..all scatter around d whole Malaysia...what surprised me was i received a sms birthday wishes fr a friend,X tat i knw him thru facebook...i thought this type of friendship wont last long as we juz chat on d msn n nvr meet b4..this continues for more than half yr ady..i nvr expect tat he really remember my birthday....haha!However,i still hv some friends in university who celebrated birthday wif me...
My mum bought me a new spectacles wif new and stylish frames,my dad bought me a birthday cake after so long cos he usually will only bring us out for dinner w/out birthday cake...haha~!
The pics below here r d gifts tat my friends here gave to me:

Lavendar Set of 4 cube set
Body Scrub

Shower Gel

Body Lotion

Bath Salts

Teddy Monkey

This black shirt was bought in Thai Fair after my friends here celebrated my birthday wif me...at 1st,i wanted to take d red color 1 cos my favourite color is red,but Elly n Meng stopped me fr taking red cos most of my clothes r red in color...hahaha!so,i finally take d black 1.......

I'm very happy tat all of them remembered my birthday...Anyway,i would like to thanks to all of them who had wished me n bought me gifts....thx a lot ya,i luv u ppl, muak......

I really enjoy tat day n i appreciate tat as well...All da BEST in everything u all do ya~!

Scared:My sample caught on fire!

2008-12-05T11:44:00.000-04:00

I every Fri no class1 cos Fri is d research project day for us..We can use d whole day of Fri to do our final yr project..so,of course i oso do my project 2day...
I dunno wat shuld i said abt d incident happened 2day...it's lucky o....?y did i say so leh?cos when i do my sample preparation half way,my sample caught on fire~!i really got shocked ady although i knw tat my project is quite dangerous n it may cause explosion,BUT i still cant expect it's really happening lol!my final yr project title is photocatalytical removal of metal ions,whr i nid to coat my stainless plates with TiO2,titanium dioxide with methanol..i started to do my coating process since 930am n it caught on fire at 330pm...
B4 tat,my supervisor,Ms Vijenthi alwz remind me n asked me to b careful as im doing her master project,of course not exactly d same but it's quite similar la...she had a bad experience tat her samples was caught on fire n it even burnt her lab coat as she used 220V of voltage...so,i was thinking im juz only use 35V of voltage which means abt 6 times smaller of voltages than hers...i oso dont believe tat my samples can catch on fire cos it's only 35 V mah..who knws my sample really caught fire n im too shocked to do anything...Luckily,i quickly throw away my samples as i was holding it when i saw d flame n fire is inside d methanol + TIO2 solution!
Fortunately,im not alone in d Chemistry Lab 2day!When i saw d fire,im so scare n i juz knw how to shout Wee Shen,my classmate to help me to put off d fire..Wee Shen asked me to go out n ask for help,BUT there's nobody there!not even lecturers n my scientific officer was not there as well..Finally,i saw an Engineering lecturer n i asked him to help me...So,d Engineering lecturer came in n asked me d contents of my solution..i told him tat it was d solution of alcohol n i dun think we can use water to put off d fire as i scared it may explode!He is an Engineering lecturer n he knws nothing abt Chemistry,so he oso couldnt help much..he asked me to find my Scientific Officer as soon as possible..i couldnt call my Scientific Officer as she left her phones in d lab!Luckily she came back to d lab n she used water to put off d fire!How brave was she,man....i juz cant imagine she's so brave enough to do so as i was so scared until i oso dunno wat to do,my brains r not functioning ady!According to her,this is not her 1st time seeing this n she get used ady...She oso said tat luckily she came back early cos if we juz leave d fire like tat,it'll juz explode like tat within half an hour!Imagine tat,if tat really happens,i dunno wat's going to happen with Wee Shen as i was running up n down to find ppl for help!OMG,Thx to God,luckily Wee Shen was with me,if not,im sure i dead in d lab ady...
Frankly to say,i oso dunno y my sample can catch on fire..i had been doing this so many times ady n this is d 1st time it caught on fire...According to d Scientific Officer,it's because i had been switching on d Voltage too long time ady,as i said i had been doing my project non-stop since 930am n it caught on fire at 330pm..BUT,i still think tat it might b 1 of d reasons,but d main reasons is mb due to my "itchy mouth"..cos while doing my samples coating,Wee Shen keep reminding me to b careful n more alert as Ms Vijenthi told them abt how dangerous my project is..Yet im keep saying tat it wont catch on fire as d voltage is very small...who knws,it ends up like tat...haiz~!
Nw,i learnt fr my mistakes ady!nvr get panic when something bad happened...i hv to alwz remember this as Wee Shen will not doing his project in d Chemistry Lab ady,he'll b doing his in Biotech Lab...tat means if nxt time my samples catch on fire again,TouchWood!!! i hope there wont b nxt time anymore..i really very scared n panic tat time..
Im sure my Scientific Offficer wont allow me to do my project until late at night ady cos she said she's so worry n scared of me if she allowed me to do so as i had a "bad impression" for her ady(samples getting fire!)......

Defence against ATM robbery

2008-11-26T04:18:00.000-04:00

Don't know true or not, but it's good to know..!

Sharing this useful information with you....

PIN NUMBER REVERSAL

If you should ever be forced by a robber to withdraw money from an ATM machine, you can notify the police by entering

your Pin # in reverse. For example if your pin number is 1234 then you would put in 4321. The ATM recognizes that your

pin number is backwards from the ATM card you placed in the machine. The machine will still give you the money you

requested, but unknown to the robber, the police will be immediately dispatched to help you.

This information was recently broadcasted on TV and it states that it is seldom used because people don't know it

exists.

Bottled water in the car is very dangerous to women

2008-11-14T07:28:00.001-04:00

This has been identified as the most common cause of the high levels in breast cancer, especially in Australia.

A friend whose mother was recently diagnosed with breast cancer.

The Doctor told her: women should not drink bottled water that has been left in a car.

The doctor said that the heat and the plastic of the bottle have certain chemicals that can lead to breast cancer.

So please be careful and do not drink bottled water that has been left in a car and pass this on to all the women in your life.

This information is the kind we need to know and be aware of and it just might save a life.

The heat causes toxins from the plastic to leak into the water and they have found these toxins in breast tissue.

Use a stainless steel Canteen or a glass bottle when you can!!!

Be Aware of it!

Healthy Life

2008-11-14T07:26:00.000-04:00

1) Answer the phone by LEFT ear.

2) Do not drink coffee TWICE a day

3) Do not take pills with COOL water.

4) Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm.

5) Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume.

6) Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night.

7) Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS.

8) Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time.

9) Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning.

10) Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping .

11) When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times.

Resignation Letter

2008-11-09T06:01:00.002-04:00

Short but not formal….

A bit formal…..

Formal One……

Or this one?

Tired but Happy

2008-11-08T05:22:00.003-04:00

Today,8th of November is AIMST Unity Run.So,we d members of TECHNO-ENTREPRENEURSHIP Club (d club of my course,Materials Technology with Management) open stalls selling ice-blended with pearl,milk shake with pearl, sweet crepe,savoury crepe (single n mixture). There are few flavours of them n it's very delicious oso.If it's not delicious,we wont ask d handsome guy,Bob to close his stalls in d shopping complex n come over AIMST n sell it!i din lie,it's very nice.There r few stalls selling ice-blended wif pearl in d shopping complex,BUT only Bob's stall hv business compare to others.We start selling at 830am n tat time there was only 3 of us (include me),Bob n his assistant,Heng.The business was so good until im so bz for taking orders,collecting money n oso sending d food cos we sold many food n my other 2 frenz r helping out wif Bob n Heng.
I really would like to thank Wee Shen cos w/out his help,i dunno wat's going to happen on me ady. He helped me to count d money as our Maths quite good mah n i count d profits tat both Bob n us shuld get. We managed to sell off 104 items n earned abt RM500 something in juz half a day. But,we shared d profit based on our promise lol.It's still not bad,rite?Both of us still earning n Bob oso earn more ..hehe!
*Actually,when d 1st time to buy crepe fr him at d Central Square,shopping complex in Sg Petani,i had a crush on him lol..haha!cos he was quite handsome,polite and soft-speaking,but he doesnt really look like "sisi" la!Then,yesterday,we go to his stall again (to confirm sum things wif him cos 2day he's cuming over mah),i got to knw tat he oso do voluntary work every Friday!Wah,he's such a nice,sweet n kind guy,man!i think i had went to his stalls few times lol,but i seldom talk to him (unlike my frenz,they alwz talk to him n ask his personal things).But,since he agreed to cum to AIMST to sell d food,i begin to talk wif him lol cos it's much more easier to communicate mah,same race n similar thinking!haha!
N of course i talk more to him cos im in charge in taking d orders n gv him d orders,remind him......when i was bz,i was confused ady n he consoled me lol...so sweet la him~!*
tat's y even though im tired,but im still happy lol...hahaha!

Attached here is his name card n sum pictures of his crepes.

Worried

2008-11-08T05:20:00.001-04:00

i was quite bz tis few days in fact tis few weeks la...tat's y couldnt write blog abt d incident on d exact day. Previously i did mention tat i couldnt get any company for my internship (industrial training) nxt yr Jan. Who knws I got a call fr a company,QDos (opposite Seagate) on 3rd, Mon, 250pm. Unfortunately, they placed me under Purchasing and Quotation Department. I heard d terms b4,but i dunno wat's d meaning of tat.So, i asked d HR Manager,Ms Ong wat izzit abt tis n wat am i going to learn fr there. She replied me very briefly n seems tat want to hang up my phone asap. I was a bit suspicious cos she said tat it was something related to my course.So, i called my FYP (final yr project) supervisor,Ms Vijenthi n asked her abt d department. I found out tat it involves documentation works n pricing of materials!i was so shocked n disappointed cos i learn nothing fr there if i really go there for training. My course is Materials Technology with Management,but still major in Materials Engineering mah,how come place me in tis department?i knw my course syllabus includes management oso,but i still dun really want to do wif 100% documentation for my 3 months training!

I was happy n disappointed at d same time!happy bcos i finally got company for training ady,disappointed bcos i din get my desired placement of department.

Actually,most of them (my frenz,ex-seniors n supervisor) dun really agree me to go to QDos lol.BUT,i still hv to agree tat i wanted it cos if i reject QDos,i scared no other company will call me up for training. Imagine tat,i had applied 20 over companies in Kulim,Perai n Bayan Lepas areas n only 1 replied me n accept me only!So,i juz answer ok to cos Ms Ong straight said tat she accepted me for doing training in QDos n d best part is she nvr interview me..hehe!cos my previous experience was the HR Manager of Plexus interviewed me thru phone calls!

I was worried again cos im trying to force myself n trying to imagine myself training in d Purchasing n Quotation Department n i really cannot accept it la.i was so hoping tat other companies will call me up n at least placed me under d department which is really related to my course lol....~

Careless or Unlucky??

2008-10-08T05:47:00.000-03:00

1. Due to Hari Raya, i hv a week of holidays lol..but i really "misused" d holidays..i used 5days of d holidays juz to find solutions n answers for my assignment!!of course,some of d days i used to complete my presentations,electronic materials n magnetic materials...d electronic materials presentations hv to present on 6th oct,which is yesterday..d topic of my presentation is Logic Gates & Boolean Algebra, it's mainly on calculation..i did 16 slides of ppt.2 of d slides,i wrote wrong ans n nobody notice tat except my lecturer,Dr Joesph!!this shows tat my classmates r not focusing on wat i said lol...haiz...i dun think they dun understand lol cos Dr Joseph said tat i explained tat part quite well,easy to understand..mb it's true tat they r not focusing lol cos they dun really like calculations except me!!haha!i was so embarrassed....later,Dr Joseph asked me to calculate n wrote d correct ans on d white board to c tat i really understand o not o i juz copy n paste fr internet...haha!of course i did all correct la,but still hv to explain d same thing again...haiz!i really din notice tat mistakes lol...if not,my presentations will b perfect ady~~hehe!but,i think due to this minor mistakes,he dun really impress my presentations ady cos b4 tat he was quite impress my presentations1...sad..sad~~

2. As i said juz nw,i used most of d time to do d assignments n yet i still hv a ques dunno how to do...so coincidently Dr Joseph sat nxt to me during our presentations,so i asked him abt d ques in d assignments tat i dunno how to do 1...he explained to me how to do,then i told him tat i had done it but still couldnt get d correct ans..i plan to show him tat i had done d steps tat he had mentioned,so i looked for my assignments lol...who knws?i fail to prove to him lol cos i couldnt find my assignments!!!i reallty couldnt remember whr i put ady..so,how arr?of course yesterday after class,i straight go back to Butterworth la...waste tol money,petrol money n oso my energy nia...haiz!!!of course i dun want to do it again cos i oledi 4got how i did ady n yet i spent a lot of time to do d assignments 1,tat's y i rather go back hometown than do it again..somemore,i hv other presentations to do,i dun want to waste time mah...hehe!

tat's d end of my story...
Conclusion is: alwz check thoroughly tat all things had been taken back b4 go back to campus..dun assume tat things had been taken lol~~

Beware of Torch Light

2008-10-07T06:25:00.002-03:00

One morning a few months ago in broad daylight, a girl was getting into her car when a few men approached her with what looked like a torchlight. Quite harmless looking. They pressed the 'torchlight' into her back and immediately she went limp and very pale. So she wouldn't be able to fight back, they slashed her thigh with a parang and sped away in her car. There were many people around and they quickly took her to the nearest clinic. There were two doctors at that time and they managed to stitch up her wound but the girl remained pulse-less and still pale as paper. No pulse, no BP (blood pressure). Just like dead. The doctors were confused as to how one wound on the thigh made the girl almost like dead? They managed to revive her and save her life. After some checking around, the doctors found out what actually happened was that the girl was made unconscious not by a torchlight but actually a high voltage weapon. They are not sure how many watts she mentioned. 1000? Anyway, it was high enough to kill a person by electrocution. It seems this weapon is from China . It's not rampant yet in Malaysia,but with this thing, a person can rob, rape, kill, kidnap, and practically do anything to you.Thedoctors said that if the girl weren't taken to the clinic immediately she would have died because there was no pulse on her. Be careful!

测验你是否是个甜美漂亮或有趣的人

2008-10-07T05:59:00.006-03:00

现在,准备一张纸和一支笔,选出下列选项(一题一个) 注意不可以往下跳着看否则会不准唷!!!
1. 写出以下选项中你最喜欢的颜色
A. 红 B. 橘 C. 黄D. 绿E. 蓝

2. 写出以下选项中你最喜欢的动物
A. 狗B. 猫C. 兔D. 虎E. 鱼

3. 写出以下选项中你最喜欢的花
A. 玫瑰B. 郁金香

4. 写出以下选项中你会选择听谁的音乐
A. LIMPBIZKIT (林普斯机乐团) , B. N SYNC (超级男孩) C. JAY Z (饶舌歌手)

5. 写出以下选项中你会选择去哪里杜蜜月:
A. 夏威夷B. 纽约

6. 写出以下选项中你会选择看哪一部电影
A. MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE (瓶中信) B. HALF BAKED (抢救肯尼小子)

7. 写下一位异性的名字(马上想到的那个唷!)
_________

8. 写下现在的时间
______

9. 写下你的年龄
___

10. 不用写出来但许个愿吧!
*我希望/但愿_________......

＊＊＊＊＊解答＊解答＊解答＊＊＊＊＊
1.
A=罗曼蒂克
B=活泼
C=孩子气
D=古怪 E=独特

2.
A=气质
B=冷静
C=孩子气
D=强壮 E=无聊

3.
A=甜美贴心
B=古怪

4.
A=漂亮
B=甜美,贴心
C=有趣

5.
A=罗曼蒂克
B=独特

6.
A=甜美,贴心
B=有趣

7.你写下的这个人可以会喜欢上你。

8.你必须在这段时间内将这封信转寄出去
(例: 5:15=5小时又15分钟) 9.你必须寄出和这个数字（年龄数）一样多的人数

10.你必须回帖和转发！！！

11.若你实行了8, 9&10 ~您的愿望有99.9%会实现。。。

ReGreT

2008-10-03T09:37:00.002-03:00

Yesterday,i met up an old friend,Hilary. we did not meet up each other after F5 (i think got 6 yrs ady)..quite long horr, last yr only we contact each other thru msn n sms lol..actually, we used to b close friends when we r in F3. after tat,we seldom keep in touch ady...but,tis's not d main issue..
we went to Sunway Carnival n shopping..then,we went to Is Bowl Rice to hv a drink..we talked abt relationship stuff n suddenly it reminded me abt a so-called "past relationship"...i nvr knw tat Hilary oso knw abt tat cos i din tell her oso..hehe!
it happens like tat:
when i was in F4,there used to b a guy,O who's quite close wif me.he alwz exchanged d seat wif my frenz n sat nxt to me.he alwz b my side,talked wif me n whenever im in trouble,he's d 1st who helped me.his close frenz,who is oso my frenz did tell me tat he likes me,but i thought tat they were juz joking as they like to joke wif me...but,i dunno tat time he was in d process of "pikating"me ...i was too naive n stupid tat time.i oso dunno tat he likes me cos all d while i thought he treated me as his best frenz mah...until 1 day,i received a new yr card fr him.he proposed to me in d card w/out any signature...i started to ask my frenz n all of them refuse to tell who's d 1 tat sent d card to me.then,i realized tat he was 1 who put d card in my desk cos i can recognize his handwriting mah!hehe!but im not so sure it's him oso until he asked me whether i had read d contents of d card,then only im very sure tat he's d 1 lol...even a small kid oso knw la cos d way he asked me like so obvious...i replied him saying yes,i had read.he asked for my final decision n i replied "NO" cos for me,he's too good,too nice n too handsome n im juz a very simple and normal gal.im not suitable for him lol if we really go out like tat,im sure many ppl will look at us 1 kind..he oso nvr ask me d reasons y i rejected him.he juz sat it's ok n left me there alone.when i go back tat nite,i cried non-stop cos i really like him1...d nxt day,when we saw each other again,he tried to avoid me.he refused to look o to talk wif me ady...i really feel regret for rejecting him lol..i had tried my best to talk to him,mb we can change d situation.however,he still keep avoiding me...this continues for a yr until i gave him a birthday present. obviously,i wont gv him d present my own,i asked my frenz to pass to him as he refuse to c me..after tat,he came n said thanks to me.he even tell me tat his mum like d present as well..i was so happy until i couldnt sleep tat nite..things r better nw,he finally talk to me ady!he no longer avoid me,BUT we r no longer as close as last times..mb both of us r bz wif our own stuffs..after few months,i heard tat he had a gf.my heart was so hurt n i really very sad tat time...i dunno wat happened in between he n d gal cos their relationship ends quite fast,juz few months only..actually,after his break-up wif d gal,i did think of proposing to him,but i dun hv d courage to do so cos i scared tat he might reject me like how i rejected him (i scared tat he wanted to revenge me due to my stupid thinking).in d end,i really din talk abt tis matter to him..after tat,all of us graduated F5 n we din contact each other until nw...tis case happened at 7 yrs ago,2001...
sometimes,when i was thinking back d past,i felt like i was too stupid n over-thinking...if i dun think too much,if i really fight for my happiness,im sure im very happy n satisfied nw...i oso din c him for 7 yrs ady......really miss him a lot!
sometimes,i was thinking y he gives up so fast?y he din try n ask me again?if he proposed to me d 2nd time,i sure will agree1...y is him like tat?1 time of failure doesnt mean tat u'll fail 4ver mah...
If i got d chance to meet him again,d 1st word tat i would say to him is SORRY!i din mean to hurt u...in fact,i was suffering oso...
hope he's nw in good condition n everything goes smoothly......
i hope we hv d chance to meet up 1day...BUT,i dunno when..perhaps,2mrw?nxt month?nxt yr?o we wont c each other 4ever ady??it's a big question mark,i oso dunno when........

MY SeNiorS

2008-08-30T10:25:00.011-03:00

Time flows very fast. My seniors of Batch 3,4 & 5 finally graduate...(quite admire them lol). It's quite hard to c them tat often anymore...
There are 10 of them:

Chiam Viking
Chin Yeit Yuan
Goh Cheng Chin
Goh Yen Chiew
Issac Yap
Joshua Gan
Leow Mun Tyng
Nithiananthen
Shantiney
Sree Ramanan

All of them r quite nice, friendly & helpful...
I would like to thx them for helping & supporting me all this while..
Wish all of them G6 & All da BEST in their future...

Souvenirs for seniors

The seniors & our HOD,Mr Kathir

Feelings after ExaMs

2008-04-14T09:36:00.004-03:00

YeaH!!!my exams r juz over...i was so excited that it's over...however,time flows quite fast...n i almost finish my degree programme vy soon!....(actually i feel excited abt it...hehe!)
Actually,i was quite disappointed too!...im sure my results in this semester may not tat good n i dont think i can maintain my CGPA at the level of 3 cos i feel like i din put extra efforts on it...nw only i started to regret.isnt it too late to say tat?
i juz get better CGPA at the previous semester n i was quite happy n satisfied wif it...but,in order to maintain it,i feel it's vy difficult for me n i juz realize it...Haiz......i had calculated tat if only my results are in the category of A & B,then only im able to maintain my CGPA of 3,but if i score a C in one of the subjects,then my CGPA will drop!OMG....
i admit tat i din take seriously attitude on my studies this semester cos it was a short semester!it's juz a 7 weeks of lectures!tat's y i take things lightly...furthermore,i was not satisfied wif my internal marks as well!cos it contributes 50% n another 50% goes to final exams!the most highest internal marks tat i got is only 39 n the lowest one is 32!!!how to score an A in the final exams?in order to get an A, i hv to score 80 & above in my final exams!!!i oso dunno y my internal marks r tat low...kinda disappointed n sad......i nvr expect tat lol!n i think this is the 1st time tat i score such low internal marks lol......
i really cant c n cant imagine if my CGPA dropssssss!!!i hope MIRACLE will happen lol!

１００个对不起

2008-04-13T02:50:00.001-03:00

今天期中考，学校早一点放学，我打了通电话给他。　　
：喂，我今天比较早放学，你来载我回家好不好？　　
：好，等我五分钟。　　
：五分钟？我学校就在你家旁边耶。　

　　　
：我总要打扮一下啊。　　
：好啦，快一点喔。　

　　　
下午2：00，太阳大的让我有种冲动想喷鼻血，我站在树荫下挥动着手，虽然没凉到哪里去，但是煽总比不煽好。　

　　　
五分钟过了，他还没来，我看看手表，有点不高兴，十分钟过了，他还没到..，该不会出了什么事吧？呸呸呸...乌鸦嘴，十五分钟过了，他总算到了。　

　　　
：怎么这么慢？　　
他一副无所谓的样子说：没啊，看个电视。　

　　　
什么？看个电视？你要不要顺便睡个觉洗个澡吃个饭再来？我没有说话，没有拿安全帽，没有上车的瞪着他。　　
：对不起。　　

　
　这是他第一次对我说对不起，他是一个很大男人主义，爱面子的男生，所以他从不像女生低头说对不起，我看着他，好吧，似乎面有惭色，我带上安全帽，让他载我回家。　　

　　
他总是这样，从来不解释，不争论，不跟我吵架，只跟我说对不起，有些事，不是一句对不起就能解决的，但是他都跟我道歉了，我也就没再追究下去，他说，我是第一个让他说对不起的女生。　　

　　
认错需要很大的勇气，但是他从来都没有改进他的错误，对不起反而变成一种打发我的话。在他说第59次对不起时，我流着泪，低下头说：你不要再跟我说对不起了，如果你无法改变，就不要让我给你一次又一次的机会，相信你会改变。他轻轻的拥着我，说了第60句对不起。　　

　　
虽然如此，他还是没有改变，不做任何的解释，我开始怀疑他是不是有事瞒着我。　　
：你最近怎么了？　　
：没有啊。　　
：那你为什么心情不好？　　
：没有啊。　　
：又是没有啊，你除了这句话以外没有别的吗？你知不知道我很担心，很没有安全感，你到底有没有当我是你女朋友？　　
：...对不起。　　
：我不要听你说对不起。　　

　　
我挂了电话，他也没有打来，他根本就不在乎我，也许，我们该结束ㄌ..........这是他说的第99句对不起....。　　
从那天开始，我再也没有找过他，他也没有打电话给我，有时候，我会接到一通无声的电话，但是我喂了几声，就挂了，有一种直觉是他，但是他为什么都不说话？一个月之后，我按奈不住思念的心情决定到他学校找他，我在教室外东张西望的，就是没有看到他的人影，我随便抓了一个男生来问。　　
：同学，请问一下，梦伟今天有来吗？　　
：他休学了。　　
：啊？为什么？什么时候的事？　　
：他已经一个月没来了。　　
：...喔..谢谢。一个月..一个月没来，怎么会呢？　　
我跌跌撞撞的回到家..拨他的手机：您的电话已经为您转到语音信箱，请在嘟一声...。我挂了电话，打到他家，响了好久都没有人接，怎么会？全家移民吗？他仿佛是从这世界上消失了一样，没有一点痕迹。　　他该不会另结新欢了吧？我开始胡思乱想，我找不到他..，正当我烦恼的时候，电话突然响了，是阿立打来的，他是梦伟的死党也是我的好友。　　

　　
：喂，你还在干嘛啊？　　
：什么？　　

　　
：ㄚ伟在医院啦。　　
：真的？他怎么了？　　

　　
：没有啦，他在○○医院，就是你上次住的那一家。　　
：我马上去。　　

　　
我立刻用我出生以来最大的速度飙到那家医院，在医院看到了他家人和妈妈，我向他们问了他在哪一间病房之后，就急忙的飞奔而去。　　

　　
他躺在床上，眼睛看着我，没有说话，没有起床，一动也不动的。　　
：喂，你怎么了？为什么不通知我呢？　　

　　
他没有回答我，只是一直用同样的眼神看着我。　　
：回答我啊，你为什么不说话？　　
他眼角留下了一滴泪，身体仿佛用了最大的力气，牵动着嘴角　　
：...对不起...。说完，他闭上了眼睛。　　
：喂，你别装了好不好，为什么要说对不起，我不要你说对不起啊，你起来啊，回答我啊。　　

　　
我哭倒在他床边，拉着他的衣服哭喊着：你为什么要说对不起，连说服我的理由都没有？我不会原谅你，你起来啊，你说对不起没有用啊，你不起来我这辈子都不会原谅你，我求求你....睁开眼睛啊...。　　
这是他说的一百句对不起...一群医生和护士拉开我，开始抢救他，我全身没有力气再站起来，我的头脑一片空白，眼前一片漆黑..。　　
他没有离开这个世界，只是我永远都无法触摸到他，但他有时也会在我的梦中出现，告诉我他过的好不好。　　

　　
他还是陪着我，还是活着，在我心里，他依然如昔，还是会笑着叫我咏熙，叫我老婆，只是..他不再对我说对不起了...。　　

　　
过了几个月，他妈妈来找我，给了我一个盒子，里面装的，是一百张照片，每一张照片的背面，都写着它让我生气的事情。　　
第一次对不起，老婆，我今天不是故意迟到的，我也知道理由很烂，但是我真的不忍心说实话，我在出门前突然心脏绞痛，但是我已经尽量赶了，原谅我好吗？第二次对不起?老婆，我.......... 　　
第三次对不起，老婆，我... 　　
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........... 　　
......... 　　
..... 　　
第一百次对不起，老婆，我不是狠心要丢下你，只是上帝似乎不给我这个机会让我爱你一辈子，为你带上戒指，你是我第一个让我说对不起的女孩，也是我第一个想共度一生的女孩，原谅我不能给你幸福，我会化作天使，守护着你，看着你得到幸福，答应我，别哭，我不要看到你为了我憔悴流泪的样子，我爱你。bye 梦伟　　

　　
我怎么可能不哭，你的要求太严苛了，最后一张照片，是他在医院理拍的，照片上他笑的很灿烂，他变的好瘦，脸色好苍白，但是他还是露出了笑容，拍这第

　　
一百张照片。　　

　　
在他最虚弱罪痛苦的时候，我没有陪着他。　　
对不起。　　
我抱着他的照片，泪流不止！！

it's very touching(!_!)

曖昧不是愛情

2008-04-04T02:46:00.002-03:00

曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。

曖昧是，你會常常在QQ等他線上。當他幾天沒有線上，你就會有些擔心。

曖昧是，你會不時去他的BLOG看看有沒有更新；而且你會留意字裏行間，他對你有沒有什麼暗示。

曖昧是，有感覺，然而，這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實地發展一段正式的關係。

曖昧是，明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放手。

曖昧是，有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的勇氣。

曖昧是，他不是你的情人，但似乎他比你的情人更關心你和瞭解你。

曖昧是，你會編一條圍巾給他，但大家從沒有開始過。

曖昧是，雖然他不是你的情人，但他卻會對你說：你對我是十分重要的。

曖昧是，你感冒時有一個會在晚上打電話來，特意提醒你服藥，叫你蓋好被子早點睡的普通朋友。

曖昧是，每當他提及他的另一半時，你會萬箭穿心。

曖昧是，為了逃避背叛的罪惡感。

曖昧是，甜津津又同時酸溜溜的。往往從未開始，已叫人不安，患得患失。

曖昧是，別人以為你們在搞地下情時，你會沾沾自喜。

曖昧是，別人問你們是否戀愛中，你張口結舌。

曖昧是，常常掙扎表不表白。你怕表白之後，你既得不到一個情人，卻又失去了一個知心好友。

曖昧是，見到他，你會心跳。見不到他時，你會掛念他。

曖昧是，兩個人都會互相猜想。他是不是已經暗示了什麼？我是不是自作多情？

曖昧是，每天大家都會聊QQ，會互傳手機短訊，無規律地偶然約會。

曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕會嚇怕了他。你會很小心流露自己的感情。

曖昧是，除了情人節之外，其他的節日，大家都交換禮物。

曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕會嚇怕了他。你會很小心流露自己的感情。

曖昧是，兩個人沒有承諾過什麼。但雖然如此，你願意付出的，比有承諾的情侶更多。沒有責任，但你卻很渴望去承擔，不問回報。

曖昧, 是一扇門，你可以停留在門外，也可以踏進房子裏面。然後你不可以停留在門下面。門--永遠不是終點站。

我們曖昧，我們卻不屬於對方...

Personality Test 3

2008-02-06T03:46:00.000-04:00

‘ The key to your personality can be linked to which “tree” you come under- a sort of green astrology, if you will. ’

Which tree does your birthday fall under?

Dec 23 - Jan 1 Apple

Jan 2 - 11 Fir

Jan 12 - 24 Elm

Jan 25 - Feb 3 Cypress

Feb 4 - 8 Poplar

Feb 9 – 18 Cedar

Feb 19 – 29 Pine

March 1 – 10 Weeping willow

March 11 – 20 Lime

March 21 Oak

March 22 – 31 Hazelnut

April 1 -10 Rowan

April 11 – 20 Maple

April 21- 30 Walnut

May 1- 14 Poplar

May 15 – 24 Chestnut

May 25 – June 3 Ash

June 4 – 13 Birch

June 14 – 23 Fig

June 24 Birch

June 25 – July 4 Apple

July 5 – 14 Fir

July 15 – 25 Elm

July 26 – Aug 4 Cypress

Aug 5 – 13 Poplar

Aug 14 – 23 Cedar

Aug 24 – Sept 2 Pine

Sept 3 – 12 Weeping willow

Sept 13 – 22 Lime

Sept 23 Olive

Sept 24 – Oct 3 Hazelnut

Oct 4 – 13 Rowan

Oct 14 – 23 Maple

Oct 24 – Nov11 Walnut

Nov 12- 21 Chestnut

Nov 22- Dec 1 Ash

Dec 2 – 11 Hornbeam

Dec 12 – 21 Fig

Dec 22 Beech

Do you find a bit of yourself in each “tree”- or you are exactly what it says, if not always flattering? Have fun, my dear friends!

APPLE

Key quality: loving

You’re attractive and have a strong aura that draws others to you. You’re flirtatious, adventurous and sensitive. For you, life isn’t worth living if you aren’t loved or in love.

You live for today, are carefree, imaginative- and have a strong gift for science.

FIR

Key quality: mysterious

Stubborn and moody, you need to get your own way, more than most, but you can also be very kind. You have excellent taste and love to be surrounded by beauty. Your innate dignity and cultured air can make others envious.

You’re very ambitious and talented, and although you may make enemies, you also have many good and loyal friends.

ELM

Key quality: noble

You’re noble-minded, cheerful and generous. You’re low-key and don’t make many demands, but you don’t tend to forgive mistakes, either. You make an honest and faithful partner, but like to lead-you sometimes adopt a know-it-all attitude and make decisions for others when they’d rather you didn’t.

CYPRESS

Key quality: faithful

You’re strong, adaptable and pragmatic. In good times and bad, you remain content and optimistic. However, it’s important to you to have money and have your gifts acknowledged, or else you become quick0tempered and careless of others’ feelings. You’re a passionate lover who’s not easily satisfied.

POPLAR

Key quality: uncertainty

You’re artistic, a great organizer and have a bent for philosophy.

You’re good at seeing both sides of an argument-hence your reputation for uncertainty. There is a tendency towards loneliness and you’re a bad enemy when crossed. You’re often very attractive, but underneath you’re not very self-confident. You’re reliable and take partnerships seriously.

CEDAR

Key quality: confidence

You have a rare beauty that isn’t always rooted in your outer appearance.

You’re confident and tend to look down on those who aren’t so self-assured. You know how to adapt to circumstances and are determined, industrious and optimistic.

You’ll be prepared to wait a long time for your true love to appear, confident that it’s only a matter of time.

PINE
Key quality: particular

You love agreeable company and surroundings. You’re healthy, active, practical and trustworthy. You have a great naturalness that draws others to you and you’re a good companion. You have high standards, but when they are met you fall in love quickly. However, it’s often the sort of passion that burns out quickly as you lose interest and you may suffer many disappointments in love.

WEEPING WILLOW

Key quality: melancholy

You’re probably beautiful but have a quality of sadness and reserve that makes you a mystery to others. You’re very empathetic, full of intuition and love travel and beauty.

You’re a dreamer-restless, capricious but honest. You can be demanding and suffer in love until you find a partner who anchors you and gives you all the support you need.

LIME

Key quality: reluctance

You are soft and relenting and make great sacrifices for your friends. You have many talents but sometimes lack the tenacity to make dreams come true. You are loyal, but can be jealous and will not give up a lover lightly. However, on the whole you accept what life dishes out to you in a composed way.

OAK

Key quality: strength

You’re courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent and sensible. Just like the oak, you put down deep roots and once you take up a position, you stick to it, but when you want something badly you will pursue it tenaciously.

Your good health helps you realize your goals. You’re very down-to-earth and your always get what you want.

HAZELNUT

Key quality: extraordinary

Charming and popular, you know how to make a huge impression. You’re often an active fighter for social causes. You can be moody and capricious lover, but when you are committed you become more tolerant and always honest in love.

You are very understanding when you want to be, but for sheer devilment you are undermine others’ self-confidence with a few well-chosen words.

ROWAN

Key quality: sensitivity

You’re charming, cheerful and despite your many talents, not egotistical. Even you try to be low-key, there is a restless about you that magnetises others. You love life, good company and have an artistic, passionate nature.

You are both independent and independent when in love, and sometimes make life complicated just to raise the emotional temperature. Once hurt, you hold a grudge and find it hard to forgive.

MAPLE

Key quality: independence

You are quite an extraordinary person, full of imagination and originality. You’re very clever and have a good memory.

Ambitious, proud and hungry from new experiences, you are still somewhat shy and reserved and often nervous.

You have many hang-ups and tend to have a complicated love life, often because you’re proud and won’t be pushed around.

WALNUT

Key quality: passion

You have an unusual personality-spontaneous and full of contrasts. No one can predict how you will react. You can be aggressive and unrelenting in pursuits of goals. At the same time, you have a noble, broadminded attitude. You tend to guard against inflexibility and can be a difficult partner.

You’re not always liked, but often admired.

CHESNUT

Key quality: honesty

Often unusually attractive, you have a well-developed sense of justice. You’re a born diplomat, but your self-confidence is easily knocked when this happens, you can come across as either overly sensitive or superior.

You have a tendency to love only once, which can make it difficult to find the right partner.

ASH

Key quality: ambition

You’re uncommonly attractive and vivacious, but you hate criticism and can be egotistical.

You’re ambitious and talented and like to take risks with your future. At the same time, you’re very reliable and are an unusually faithful lover. Your emotions are often submerged and your brain usually rules your heart, but you take partnerships seriously.

HORNBEAM

Key quality: sensibility

Blessed with a certain cook beauty, you take great care of your looks. You led a balanced life and are very conscientious.

You tend to be egotistical and mistrustful. You need a partner in touch with emotions, although conversely, you are seldom at ease with your own.

You are very highly imaginative and even when happy in love, you will dream of unusual lovers.

FIG

Key quality: sensibility

Perceptive and independent, you’re very practical and intelligent. You can be willful and don’t like to be contradicted.

You love life. The most important thing to you is your family and you are often fond of animals. You’re a social butterfly and have a good sense of humour and enjoy luxury.

BIRCH

Key quality: You’re vivacious and despite all this, modest. You abhor vulgarity and hate excess in all things. You love nature and beautiful surroundings, but can lack passion and ambition.

There’s something other-worldly about you-you instinctively know there’s no point in getting over-excited about things.

OLIVE

Key quality: wisdom

Like the olive tree, you love to bask in the sun and need to be surrounded by the warmth of kind feelings.

You are a deeply loving person, reasonable and balanced. You avoid aggression and violence at all costs. Tolerant, cheerful and empathetic, you love to read.

BEECH

Key quality: creativity

You have great taste and tend to be concerned with the appearance of things, especially your looks. You’re well-organized, a good leader and have your life, career and finances well under control. This level of organization gives you the freedom to be creative in every aspect of your life, although you are quite materialistic.

You’re very reasonable, tolerant and make a great lifetime companion.

Personality Test 2

2008-01-30T23:22:00.000-04:00

It's quite accurate(",)

从生日推断你是什么脾气？
1，帝雉 1/15~2/14出生
条理清晰、见解力强、诚实而坚毅型的人。虽然拥有老实又温和的外表，内心却隐藏着像梅花一般的坚强个性。重视自我实践、有效率地达成目标，你总希望能不断进步以完成更高的理想。你有向上的野心，更会不惜花费时间、金钱，力求完成。

2，鹰 2/15~3/14出生
早熟善感，富有个性与创意，独特的思维模式让你显得神秘与吸引力。文艺方面具有相当的天份，希望在旅游中找寻人生的真谛与灵魂的意义，流动式的生存方式，也是你向往且擅长的，因此如果硬要把自已绑在一个固定的范围之内，你可能会感到有挫折感，「留在固定模式的框框」里，会埋没了你的才能！

3，白鸽 3/15~4/14出生
心地善良总是把温暖欢乐带给别人，具有从事公益活动的精神。常常不顾自己，尽力完成别人的托付，要小心被心怀不轨的人利用。不过你却不会因此改变性格，但你却会升华这些教训，变得越来越坚强！

4，蜂鸟 4/15~5/14出生
个性主观且执着，却是性情中人！不会沉溺于不切实际的空想当中，专心一志达成目标。能适时展现出勇敢果断的一面，口才佳，具谋略且反应快的你，有与生俱来的机智和过人的逻辑力，这样的你不论成为领导人物，还是人气活跃的角色，都会备受注目与拥戴。

5，画眉鸟 5/14~6/14出生
天生具有神秘感与灵巧的变化性，但时常容易处于矛盾之中。隐藏着两种极端的个性，温柔与强势、可爱与妒嫉、浪费与小气，属于纤细敏感体质。在微笑背后，也有想象不到的超现实的另一面。你适合担任辅臣或谋臣，较能发挥力量。

6，九官鸟 6/15~7/16出生
具好奇心，聪明且幽默风趣的人。想法一直在改变，虽然辩才无碍，但常不小心把重要的事说溜了嘴。对于耍宝、搞气氛方面也很擅长，人际关系手腕圆滑，如果能不把聪明表现得太过火的话，就能成为人气极旺的阳光人物喔！

7，文鸟 7/17~8/16出生
容易觉得寂寞，很容易被感动，也很乐意感动别人。虽然很会照顾人，内心却有天真的一面，像彼得潘，是个长不大的顽皮小孩，不过，有时却令人意外地会展现出成熟的一面。

8，孔雀 8/17~9/16出生
个性鲜明，超喜欢追求流行，永远在找寻自已能引人注目的方式。总是活在想象的世界里。拥有号召人群的能力，可以让大家都聚精会神听你说话；缺点是容易光说不练，若能培养行动力，就有本事让人都愿意跟随你。

9，七色鸟 9/17~10/16出生
理智型的人，很懂得做事的方法，有时不免对他人的要求也高，如果过于苛求，最后可能会走向孤独，或许是因为带有悲观的性格，所以，你也会常常因为害怕失去，连可以得到的也将之拒绝的情形发生。

10，乌鸦 10/17~11/16出生
不笑的时候，显得冷酷与淡漠，其实内心隐藏热情，具长辈缘，也会得同辈与晚辈的喜爱与拥戴。不过，因为完美主义的倾向，而考虑太多难以下决定。对于讨厌的人，会毫不保留地加以唾弃，讨厌不公平的事情发生。

11，金丝雀 11/17~12/14出生
性情中人，容易冲动而行。不过正因为这股隐藏在内心的热诚，让你具有使不可能变成为可能的力量。遇到困难也会超越原本能力。你奉行「一次不忠百次不用」，不会背叛人，也决不原谅背叛的人。

12，鹦鹉 12/15~1/14出生
自由奔放的乐天派，但因为容易固执的结果，反而导致一些机会与你擦身而过。虽然拥有天份与才气，却过于沉溺在自我傲气中；个性反复无常、兴趣多，也很懂得玩乐，也会有外人意想不到的认真态度！因此要修正一下自己的毛或优柔寡断的个性。

Personality Test 1

2008-01-29T01:15:00.000-04:00

WHAT IS YOUR DATE OF BIRTH,
MATCH AND SEE WHAT ANIMAL ARE YOU...

I'm a DOG

January 1 - 9 ~ Dog
January 10 - 24 ~ Mouse
January 25 - 31 ~ Lion
February 1 - 5 ~ Cat
February 6 - 14 ~ Dove
February 15 - 21 ~ Turtle
February 22 - 28 ~ Panther
March 1 - 12 ~ Monkey
March 13 - 15 ~ Lion
March 16 - 23 ~ Mouse
March 24 - 31 ~ Cat
April 1 - 3 ~ Dog
April 4 - 14 ~Panther
April 15 - 26 ~Mouse
April 27 - 30 ~Turtle
May 1 - 13 ~ Monkey
May 14 - 21 ~ Dove
May 22 - 31 ~Lion
June 1 - 3 ~ Mouse
June 4 - 14 ~ Turtle
June 15 - 20 ~ Dog
June 21 -24 ~ Monkey
June 25 - 30 ~ Cat
July 1 - 9 ~ Mouse
July 10 - 15 ~ Dog
July 16 - 26 ~ Dove
July 27 - 31 ~ Cat
August 1 - 15 ~ Monkey
August 16 - 25 ~ Mouse
August 26 - 31 ~ Turtle
September 1 - 14 ~ Dove
September 15 - 27~ Ca t
September 28 - 30~ Dog
October 1 - 15 ~ Monkey
October 16 - 27 ~ Turtle
October 28 - 31 ~Panther
November 1 - 16 ~ Lion
November 17 -30 ~ Cat
December 1 - 16 ~ Dog
December 17 - 25 ~ Monkey
December 26 - 31 ~ Dove

Dog
Your Attractive and popular. Your nice
and easy going and make friends with
everyone very easily. Your cool and
smart and are a leader.

Cat
Your very shy and cute. You are a
follower and dont like to talk to
people
you dont know. Your very careful about
choosing your friends. Your really
nice.

Monkey
You are attractive and hyper. You have
a lot of friends and your really
outgoing. You gossip alot. Your funky
and "unique" theres no one else like
you. You want
attention and like to be a leader.

Panther
You are mysterious. You have lots of
friends and can be mean at times or
nice. You always have the latest gossip
with you and you are a leader.

Mouse
Your very quiet and quick - witted. You
are very shy. Your cute and funny. You
have a little group of friends. You
are not "popular" but you are not
a "geek"

Lion
You are a born leader. People look up
to you. You have lots a friends and you
are very attractive. Your nice and
people want to be your friend. You make
friends easily.

Turtle
You are very nice and pretty. You treat
others as you would want to be treated
yourself. You have lots of friends and
never talk about anyone behind their
back. You are loyal.

Dove
Your very peaceful and nice. You fall
in love very easily and you are quiet
and
calm. You are not very shy but you are
not outgoing. You are a leader of your
group of friends

爱情...

2008-01-10T03:40:00.000-04:00

有一对很亲密的情侣，到了谈论婚事的时候。有一天他们两去看婚纱，但女的感觉到男的怪怪的，好像心事重重，女的就关心他问他什么是，男的笑着对他说没事，但女的感觉得出来，毕竟相处这么多年了。看婚纱的途中男的叫女的去打包一些吃的，女的回来后男的脸更黑了，他大声对女的说他今天不吃海鲜为什么打包给他呢，两人就因为这一件小事而大吵起来，对他们来说还是第一次呢。回到去后女的很伤心，男的发了一件短讯给她说他要分手，女的看了几乎崩溃了，一直躲在房间哭。之后他们也没联络了，这件事就酱隔了一个月，女的一直没联络男的是因为她觉得当日没有错，就这样又过了一个月，她在街上遇到男的其中一个朋友，那朋友对她说她还是应该去见他，女的不明白，还对他说以后再也不见他了，那朋友摇头说那男的还剩下几天的命。女的听了之后流泪，问了在那间医院后就奔去找他了。看着男的憔悴和苍老，女的整个心都碎了，她终于明白为什么难得会和他吵架，为什么会和她分手了。。。。。男的说了他最后一句话就死了。。。。。。他说“小姐，你认错人了” 哈哈哈哈哈哈好不好笑？还是要告诉，珍惜爱你的人，能够在一起真的是一种福份，只要共同面对，很多困难都会迎刃而解的。!~!~!

Relationship???

2008-01-10T03:33:00.000-04:00

I wonder is it a must 2 hv a relationship at my age(22 n above)……most of my frenz hv their own partners while im still single…dey alwz urge me 2 find some1 n dey oso intro their frenz 2 me, hopefully dat I can get 1 of dem……previously, im not reli mind having sum1 who can concern, take care n teach me, but my thinking had changed nw…after some incidents happened, I find dat it’s not easy 2 maintain a relationship, especially far relationship….it’s easy 2 hv a relationship wif sum1, but it’s not easy 2 maintain…. Things alwz cum in opposite. U hv feelings 4 sum1, but he/she doesn’t; BUT d person dat u don’t hv feelings 4 him/her, dey hv feelings 4 u n u feel like he/she’s irritating…dat’s d probs dat im facing…ppl alwz say dat luv can be "nurtured",but I tink it’s not easy 2 do so….u cant try 2 like o luv dat person cos u might hurt dem indirectly….dey r humans, not toys…dat’s y we cant try…. Sumtimes, I dun even noe n notice dat dey hv feelings 4 me…mb im not observant enuf…I used 2 like sum of dem previously…when I realized dat dey like me 2, it was 2 late…our relationships couldn’t move on further….such a pity…it happens more den 1st time ald…s u noe, it’s not easy 2 hv sum1 dat u like n dat person like u 2…... Past is past-dat’s wat my buddy alwz tell me…it’s not easy 2 4get abt it n it’s still fresh in my mind…BUT, I’ll try not 2 tink abt it… I told myself dat I hv 2 b more strong… I still hv a long way 2 go on… Perhaps I could meet sum1 who’s better den dem in future???